The Day You Stop Being Curious Is the Day You Start Going Backwards
My dad didn't grow up with computers. Tonight I helped him find ticket receipts on his phone. He figured it out. It got me thinking about what it really means to stay curious as you get older.
My dad didn't grow up with computers. Tonight I sat with him at his place in Beverly Hills helping him track down ticket receipts on his phone — minor league baseball games he's taking to the Midwest to see an old friend. Simple stuff. But not simple if you didn't grow up with it.
And here's the thing: he figured it out. Not without a little friction, not without me walking him through it, but he didn't shut down. He didn't say "I don't do that." He leaned in.
I drove home feeling genuinely proud of him.
It got me thinking about something I've noticed more and more as I get older. There's a certain kind of person who, at some point, just... stops. Stops learning new tools. Stops adapting to how things work now. They stick to the process that has always worked — and honestly, I get it. Familiar things feel safe. Tested. Reliable. There's nothing wrong with that instinct.
But there's a cost.
Technology doesn't wait. The world doesn't wait. And the people who stay curious — who keep a beginner's mindset even when they're not a beginner — they don't just keep up. They stay alive in a way the others don't.
I think about this for myself too. I've spent the last year building AI tools for my own life, learning new frameworks, trying things that might not work. Not because I have to. Because I want to. Because that itch to understand how something works, to make it better, to figure out what's possible — that's one of the things I like most about myself.
The day that goes away is the day I start going backwards.
My dad's going to watch minor league baseball in the Midwest next week with his buddy. He got the tickets on his phone. Small thing. Big thing.
Stay curious. It's the whole game.